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Carlo,congratulations on two counts.Firstly on meeting someone who makes you feel the way you do. Secondly for posting on this site, as opposed to other more aggressive sites which seem to used mainly by sex tourists and men who would have problems with a relationship with any female whatsoever. They would slaughter you with their replies. The only advice I will give about money is do not spend more than you can afford to loose. All you have said about your girl sounds good. You seem to be a responsible man and are going into this with open eyes.Unless you see her again you will never know. You will have to go with the flow and access the situation. Only you know your circumstances and your feelings,so its up to you to decide. As for presents I don't know,but don't buy gold in Germany.Only Thai gold is acceptable to any girl,as for her brothers I wouldn't buy them anything. One step at a time my friend. Best of luck,maybe see you in Buriram next Christmas.
Hi all,Thanks for all the replies and advices! I think I will just see how everything will move and fly to Buriram in March and than see what will happen.Carlo
Hello everyone!Sorry for my bad English! Hoping that it is understandable what I write!I never planned to to have Thai woman as a "girlfriend", but out of some very strange circumstances I now have a very cute girlfriend closed to Khu Muang for about 4 weeks. Well, actually I am a little overextended with the whole situation as I never thought about it!She is 5 years younger than me - I'm 36 -. So it's about the right age and has a daughter of almost 4. According to what she tells me, her "Mama and Papa" are not that poor. Papa is now retired and must be something like a teacher before. They have a nice house of stone and she has a car for herself. I write that, because I learnt in meantime, that Thaiwoman are just out for money. Her daughter already go to a kind of school. Her English knowledge is so so - at least worse than my bad knowledge! She speaks quite well and also understands the most I say, but she doesn't write any Emails. I don't know why. Before she "divorced" she lived in Bangkok and had an office job at a car manufacturer. She told me, that she found her husband with an other woman in bed. That's why she decided to go back to her parents. But she was already pregnant. He doesn't know about his daughter. Well, I'm very much in love with her, but I think I would feel much better, If I knew that she is just out for money in real. Than I could end that up. In meantime I trust her that it is not (at least not the money alone) together with me because of that. Sorry it is still difficult for me to call a woman "girlfriend" who is 11.000 km away!!! It just feels very unreal altthough we have SMS, Email and telephone calls almost every day since I fly home from Bangkok.I'm now planning to visit her in March for 2 or 2 weeks. I do have so many questions. Maybe you can be so kind and answer one or two of them:- Does she really love me or is it just the "money" she want?- Any ideas for gifts for her, her daughter, Mama and Papa and her 3 brothers?- What do I have to await when I will stay in Khu Muang? Would it be better to take a hotel or should I take the invitation to sleep in the house? By the way she is very proud that she has her own room and her Father already bought an aircon because of me. She also told me that in meantime she owns the house, because her father donated to her. Does his father just think, that it is a good invest? I don't know. Maybe I just read too much nonsens in the I-net.- Can there really be a future for us? And if yes, would it be easier, if I learnt Thai and look for a job in Thailand, there might be a possibility as I work for Siemens and there seems to be a branch in Bangkok, but I did not apply for a job so far, or would it be easier, if she will come with her daughter to Germany? - If she will ask for money - and she surely will - how I can best transfer the money and how much, if I decide that I want to of course? Moneybrookers, Western union? - I wonder how open she speaks about things I would not tell right away. - Any idea which way of calling her is cheap from Germany? Right now I use Skye.You see I'm very confused with the whole situation. My brain tells me I should immediately end up as there will be no real future, but my heart tells me no, you can't as we are made for each other. Any hints and tips are very welcome! Maybe anyone likes to meet me when I will be in Buriram? I'm sure I am not the first one who writes a story like this in this forum. Many thanks for your help!Carlo
Wonder if Carlo will drop back in to let everyone know how it went?
Quote from: Don Ho on April 24, 2010, 10:00:54 PMWonder if Carlo will drop back in to let everyone know how it went?I've just shaken my ball and it says: "Highly Unlikely"